Sunday, March 23, 2008

Consequences

So ummm...we were invited out to a friends house for supper last night. My husband and I, since we don't have many close friends here, both jumped at the prospect of having some time with other people our age and with kids. Sometimes hard to find. At least we are finding it to be that way.

We packed up the car-playpen, pyjamas, sippy cups, and booster seats. We were super stoked about being able to visit with friends AFTER the kids went to bed. I don't know if its just us, but when eight o'clock hit it was like a sprint to get the kids off to bed so we could finally have some non-kid time.

Five hours later we were dragging our feet out the door wondering what on earth possessed us to stay out and up this late, knowing full well the kids wouldn't be sleeping in and waking us at who knows what ungodly hour.

It seems that we never learn our lesson. We've been here before at late wedding receptions, family gatherings and the occasional invite to "hang" out with friends. So today we payed...again. We payed big time for forgetting that we have children. For forgetting that they wake up and need to eat. For forgetting that my son likes to take off his diaper first thing in the morning regardless of whether he's gone poo or not (you can probably guess which one it was this morning) and then jump into bed with us. For forgetting that no copious amounts of chocolate we consume will be enough. For forgetting that gone are the days when we can sleep in and lounge around in bed watching whatever we want on t.v.

Have you been here before? But you know what?


It was worth it!

4 Comments:

  1. tammi said...
    Oh yes, I feel your pain!! At our good friends' place, we stick our kids in front of a TV with a movie instead of trying to put them to sleep. That way, we still get the uninterrupted adult conversation time (well, with the odd request for a snack or another drink!), but the kids end up staying up as late as we do and generally sleeping a bit longer in the morning then, too!! I think ours are a little older than yours though. When they were younger, we paid the way you did! It's always fun to have a great time with adult friends though.
    Alyson said...
    oh yes it is soooo worth it. Worse when copious amounts of wine is consumed. It adds to my...what was I thinking?
    More than Survival said...
    Oh Yeah, I soooo can relate! It is worth it, though!
    Now our children are older (10,8,5,3) and so they either sleep in a little or are old enough to get themselves a bowl of cereal and turn on a movie!
    Heather
    Erin said...
    good to know there's greener pastures up ahead! :)

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